Prostate Cancer
Coping
Psychosocial Factors
What is a psychosocial factor?
Psychosocial factors are those factors that affect a person psychologically or socially.
What are the psychosocial factors associated with prostate cancer?
Every person is different, and not all men have the same experience, thoughts, or
feelings. However, some common feelings and concerns may be present when a man is
diagnosed with prostate cancer, including the following:
- threatened masculinity
The prostate gland is critical to a man's sexual function; the possibility and actual
diagnosis of prostate cancer can instill fear and anxiety for patients since it
threatens their masculinity. They fear they will never be a "real man" again in
terms of sexual performance. Treatment for prostate cancer that results in changes
in sexual function may also affect a man's ability to father a child. Rather than
adopting a course of action in response to these fears, consider educating yourself
so that you can make the best health decisions possible. Treatment considerations
vary, as do their effects on sexual function. It is normal to be scared, angry,
or depressed when given this diagnosis. The good news is that prostate cancer is
very treatable.
- feeling embarrassed or avoiding discussions about the diagnosis
Each patient, together with their partner or family, should try their best to communicate
about the diagnosis of prostate cancer, how it makes them feel, what their expectations
are, what their fears are, etc. Prostate cancer affects not only the patient, but
also those closest to them. Arm yourself and those around you with information and
take the time to learn about your cancer diagnosis, the risks and benefits of various
therapies, and the impact they may have on your life. Take the time for you and
those you love to become informed.
- being honest with yourself and with your physician
Sometimes, men are embarrassed or feel guilty for ignoring possible signs of prostate
cancer, or avoiding visits with their physician due to the nature of a prostate
examination. Other times, men avoid going back see their physician once the diagnosis
of prostate cancer is made, choosing instead to treat themselves with alternative
medicines, or simply deny the diagnosis of cancer altogether. It is your responsibility
to be honest with yourself and your healthcare provider, in order to form a partnership
with your physician that is based on candid, honest dialogue, to ensure the best
care possible. It is normal to consider a second opinion and investigate all of
the care options available to you, until you have made the best choice for yourself.
Be assured that physicians understand getting a second opinion to confirm the diagnosis,
or to provide a different perspective on treatment options. Above all, become an
advocate for your personal healthcare.
- being afraid to ask for help
It is normal to feel helpless, alone, or isolated when you have been diagnosed with
prostate cancer. Consider going to a support group. You will find numerous other
men who understand your situation because they have been there themselves. Bring
your partner or a friend as a support person, if you choose. You will be amazed
at how much information you can gain from those who have "been there" and by the
amount of stress eliminated in the knowledge that others truly do understand. Ask
your physician where the prostate cancer support groups are in your area.
For family members coping with prostate cancer
What can you do to help the man in your life with prostate cancer?
The following are some suggestions for helping the men in your life who may have
or could have prostate cancer at some point in time:
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Keep the lines of communication open It is easy for someone with a diagnosis of
prostate cancer to become depressed, or to be in a state of denial. It is also normal
for you to be sad, angry, or in denial of the diagnosis. Open communication is critical
during a stressful time like this. Strengthen your relationship by talking about
how you feel.
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My husband/father/son will not go to the doctor because he is embarrassed about
the types of examinations necessary to check the prostate. Most men are embarrassed
at the thought of a digital rectal exam. Because the prostate is an internal organ,
it cannot be looked at directly. Prostate problems can affect men of any age and
the examination is simple and quick. Offer to go with him to the appointment or
drive him to the physician's office. Catching problems early via regular checkups
far outweighs waiting and developing a serious illness. All men over 50 should have
yearly rectal examinations for prostate disease as part of their physical checkups.
Remember, there are generally no symptoms in the earliest stages when prostate cancer
is the most curable.
- If there is something wrong, prostate cancer is not the only possibility.
In fact, there are other types of prostate problems other than cancer, which can
mimic the symptoms of prostate cancer. Like prostate cancer, these problems are
readily treatable.
- Educate yourself
Understanding the diagnosis will help you to be supportive and understand what your
loved one is going through.
- Maintain good medical records
Keep a notebook of all appointments, tests, and visits with healthcare providers,
and obtain copies of test results for your records.
- Ask questions
A dumb question is only the one not asked. Take notes and put them in your notebook
with your medical records. Accompany your partner so that you can both hear what
is being said. And, above all, ask questions.
- Attend a support group together
Meeting others who have already gone through what you are going through is one of
the best ways to alleviate feelings of helplessness and isolation.
- Seek new information
Prostate cancer diagnosis and treatment options are continually changing as new
advances and discoveries are being made. Continue to seek new information and keep
abreast of recent findings and studies that may be beneficial.